The Canadian Press

Mother Anne Marie (left) and father Paul approach the casket of Evan Frustaglio in the back of the hearse following his funeral in Toronto on Monday November 2, 2009. Thirteen-year-old Evan died after contracting the H1N1 virus. (THE CANADIAN PRESS/Frank Gunn)

13-year-old Evan Frustaglio, from Toronto, is seen in this image from his Facebook page. Pallbearers carry the casket of Evan Frustaglio at his funeral in Toronto on Monday November 2, 2009. (THE CANADIAN PRESS/Frank Gunn) Toronto Maple Leafs Jason Blake watches as the casket of Evan Frustaglio is loaded into a waiting hearse following his funeral in Toronto on Monday November 2, 2009. (THE CANADIAN PRESS/Frank Gunn)

TORONTO — Burying a child is "the most horrific thing" for anyone to endure, the father of a 13-year-old boy who died from H1N1 said at his funeral, but he hopes the tragedy will encourage more education about the virus.

Evan Frustaglio died last Monday after complaining of symptoms at a hockey tournament on the weekend. His father, Paul Frustaglio, said he, his wife Anne Marie and son Will have been touched by the outpouring of support and stories from people who have also been affected by the swine flu.

"It truly amazes me that Evan's death has captured a nation trying to find answers to a disease that is currently wearing the face of Evan Frustaglio," his father said during a eulogy for his eldest son.

"We must learn from our loss and all become educated on a disease that took our son's life."

The spectre of the influenza on the minds of people all across the country was present during the funeral as Father Vito Marziliano asked those gathered to eschew the tradition of shaking hands during the sign of peace. In accordance with new H1N1 flu guidelines issued Monday by the Archdiocese of Toronto, a nod, bow or other such gesture was encouraged.

During the emotional tribute in front of about 900 mourners, including dozens of children and teens in hockey jerseys, Frustaglio choked up several times as he shared memories of his "best friend."

The boy's passion for hockey was first sparked while watching the Canadian Olympic hockey team win a gold medal in 2002. Evan never had to be forced to go to practice, Frustaglio said. Instead it was Evan who would be prodding his parents awake for early-morning ice time.

"The job of burying your own kid is the most horrific thing for any human being to endure," Frustaglio said.

"With every fibre of our being we keep hoping we'll awake from this terrible nightmare and have him back in our arms again, shooting pucks in that driveway, protecting his brother Will, getting nagged by his mother Am to get to bed early and reminding me to get in shape."

As he prepared to bury his son, Frustaglio had a message to parents and everyone else to hold their children and loved ones close.

"The kiss of life is fleeting," he said in his eulogy. "It is over before you know it. So never let the obligations of life distract you from the cherished gift of family."